Something about Memory Quilts
At one time, I mentioned to someone that I had a commission to make a memory quilt. That person asked me,”Wasn’t it weird to make a quilt out of a dead person’s clothing? Didn’t that creep you out? Cutting up a dead person’s clothes?” I had never thought of that. Why would that be creepy? However, I continued to think about the comment. The question focussed on the dead part while I focussed on the fabric part.
Focussing on the Fabric Part
Sewing involves cutting up fabric and piecing it together to make clothes or other items. Something that I had done since I was a teenager. When learning to sew clothes, mistakes are common. The seam ripper is a sewist’s or quilter’s best friend. Just like stopping is part of driving. Ripping out mistakes is part of sewing.
Repairing Clothes
In addition,sewing often involves repairing clothing. Obviously, repairing clothing means that the item has already been used. It is not such a huge step to cut up worn clothing to create something new. The creation is the important part not the living status of the person. Sewists see things differently. All kinds of divergent views add to the conversation.
142 cm x 129cm lap quilt
Incredible fabric details
Often the memory quilts that I have made are from men’s clothing. Don’t even consider the fast clothing market. Some of the men’s jackets are works of art. One jacket(see photo above) made in East Asia came with piping and beautiful sewing details on the inside of the jacket. Monograms are common. The fabric for the shirts is of the highest quality. Think high thread count!! These materials also stand up well to the rigors of washing. They are incredible fabric that one would not find in a regular fabric store. Don’t miss such an opportunity to repurpose such great materials.
Why Memory Quilts?
So why make memory quilts? Repurposing fabric or items is foremost for me. Could the clothing be donated? Yes. Will the donated clothing all be put to good use? I don’t know for sure. Sometimes it isn’t. If the clothing doesn’t sell, it is shredded for insulation or something else.
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The Joy of Memories
What could be more special that cuddly up in a quilt that contains small pieces of fond memories that one has for a loved one? “Oh, I remember that shirt. My dad wore that almost everyday!” “Junior loved those shorts! He wouldn’t ever take them off.” What could be better than a useful, memorable yet beautiful piece?
Making a Memory Quilt
The memory quilts highlighted here are from a recent commission. I completed two reversible lap quilts from a man’s clothing that the widow gave me.
This client brought me a large plastic bin filled with shirts and pants along with a few silk ties. She wanted two quilts to be made. She also requested that certain fabrics be included in both quilts. I took notes on that so that I would remember. As a repeat customer she was familiar with my abstract style. The client looked forward to see what I would create.
Step 1 Choosing the Colors that Go together.
A Work in Progress
After making sure that the clothing is clean and smells fresh, the first step is to decide which colors go together. As stunning as red can be, red does not play well with other colors. I chose to pair the red with the black and white. The husband’s taste made choosing the colors of the second quilt fairly easy, yellow, cream and light green. The tropical shirts added just the right flair and action.
Step 2 Interesting Details
Many pieces of clothing have interesting details that I like to incorporate or highlight. Boring buttons pop with the addition of bright threads. Labels and tags add interest too. Pockets are a wonderful surprise as well. Sometimes I use the the labels or tags as is or I may have to cut them and add them to another piece of fabric. It is important to have the 3 D details all on the top of the quilt and not on the backside. When it comes to quilting the three layers together, it will be easier to quilt avoiding hitting buttons.
Using Fusible Web
Once cut apart, most of the clothing is ready to use. Silk ties and thin fabrics need to have fusible web ironed on to the back of the fabric. This prevents the fabric from stretching and aides in ease of sewing. This step is essential for the beauty of the piece and the ability to easily sew the fabrics together. It is not difficult or expensive except for the time involved.
Step 3 Designing on a Design Wall
These memory quilts are similar to my abstract art quilts.except that I use larger pieces of fabric. I place the details and unique items on the design wall first making sure that they are more or less where I want them. Then I add other fabrics rather randomly. I move the pieces around so that the colors and details are balanced. I sew pieces together and keep checking that the colors and patterns are not all in the same area.
Step 4 Complete the quilt.
When I am happy with the way that the top looks,I sew all of the pieces together. Then the top is finished. I baste the quilt sandwich; top, batting and back together. Then quilt the three layers together. I keep my quilting simple to let the fabrics shine. That is the part that is most important to the client. Similarly,after I spend time designing simple quilting also keeps the price down.
In conclusion
After sewing clothes, quilts and art quilts for decades,I continue to be impressed with the quality and durability of fabric and cloth. The fast clothing market aside, there is no reason to not recycle clothing into some other form. Memory lap quilts are a perfect fit for this redirection. Whether art quilts or memory quilts, redirecting fabrics and materials is my main focus.
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